Heads up if my husband dates someone after me don’t criticize. He kept his promise till death after that he deserves happiness with someone else. I will personally haunt anyone who thinks he must grieve himself to death. The moment I leave this astral plain let him heal,let him love let him live. My mother is still grieving herself from my father’s death. She doesn’t bathe properly,she doesn’t serve her own food or try. She is grieving and I got to deal with her mental health. I am her caretaker if I am not at work I am doing something to help her well being. She still grieves my father even though he died in 2018. Mom taught me when it’s time to move on and live. I wish she would do the same.