Well I Honesty don't know.. in 40 yr old guy with add trying to make it

For me to say I don’t know something that means alot. I don’t normally settle for that. I will explore and read and research until whatever I am wanting to know is found. Unfortunately I have found my match. A puzzle I won’t ever solve. I have wanted to find this answer more than anything else I could have ever wanted. But..... there isn’t a book on each individuals brain and how their mind works. And if someone has built a wall so tightly around themselves that they are unable to see or hear the yells and cries from the people outside that love them and want them to be happy and safe. Then the only person that can remove that wall is them. All you will do is wear yourself out emotionally trying to change how they feel. and what if they do after you go through all of that? What have you actually won? Sympathy? If they wanted your love they wouldn’t have made you chase them. Enough rant for now. Hope everyone has or had a good night. And just rember to aspire to inspire before we expire..