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spend a month on groceries/eating out? How many people? Any specials diet? I’m trying to figure out an average of how much we do- with him moving in we want to be fair with money because right ...


5 days ago

UGH. in Everything.

Okay, I’m sick so I’m extra irritated/whiny. I love you guys for understanding how ridic BFF is and yeah. She is NOT getting a $500 VIP section (that doesn’t even have seating) for her bach party...


BFF is sending me places she wants to go for her bachelorette party. You know.... the party I’m supposed to have 100% control over planning. She wants a party bus. She’s inviting 12 people and ...


Weekend recap. Thursday / Thanksgiving: It was good! We got up, got ready and went to his family’s. It was only us, his brother and his parents. His daughter was supposed to be there but her mo...


November 26, 2019

Mush + some pics. in Everything.

I knowwwwww I just posted pics of the babies fall shoot but here’s the Christmas shoot. My HEART. It was really cute the other day because my sister (their mom) called me and had like a...


November 20, 2019

Replies. in Everything.

One- THANK YOU ALL SO MUCH for your opinions/advice/stories. I appreciate it. I do know I have to talk to him. I’m not dreading it at all- we actually have pretty great communication and we can e...


November 19, 2019

Help. in Everything.

Okay I need everyone’s opinions or stories. Tell me how YOU do it. It’s getting closer and closer to Andy moving in and this is the first time I’ll be living with a guy and… I have questions abo...


November 15, 2019

Oh. Get this... in Everything.

Last week - BFF mentioned they didn’t have plans for Sunday (this coming up) so she was going to do a Thanksgiving dinner even though they’re going to have one in a few weeks. Today, BFF is vent...


November 14, 2019

First fight? in Everything.

Sort of fight. More like a crying fest. We’re not angry people. We don’t yell and scream. We just talk about it and cry about how much we’re sad that we’re upsetting the other person. Hahaha. We...


November 13, 2019

DAYDREAMIN' in Everything.

There’s just so much wedding talk in the air so…. I can’t help myself. I think about it a lot. It doesn’t help that Andy asked my ring size! He’s partially to blame. I actually blame BFF’s wed...


November 12, 2019

Few pics of the shower. in Everything.

I really suck at updating this. I REALLY shouldn’t be on at work but I am going to try to make it a quick one and being I don’t take any breaks.... ever… I will justify it saying this is my break...


November 06, 2019

Stresssssssss in Everything.

I don’t know how I used to work a much more stressful and busy job because one day of nonstop crazy work and I’m stressing. And it’s not even as bad as my old work. I think just on top of this...


October 30, 2019

7 months. in Everything.

In two days - it’s the 7 months anniversary of my first day of my new job. It’s still great and I love it. BUT .... I am still getting texts with questions from my old work. It’s never been as ...


October 29, 2019

Let’s play a game. in Everything.

“Bridezilla or not” Apparently I - her maid of honor- cannot wear a dress to her shower (a casual dress with booties). She didn’t think people were getting “so dolled up” even though she ordered ...


October 24, 2019

LOOK AT THESE BABIES. in Everything.

Hiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiiii guys!! I’m breaking all sorts of work rules and I’m ON HERE AT WORK. But I haven’t had an AUNTIE BRAG BOOK entry of the twins for a while so here!!! I just love t...


October 15, 2019

Honeymoon phase? in Everything.

Bff sent me a proof of her wedding invites yesterday. I looked them over and saw an envelope that said “the future mr and mrs cxxx” and I screenshot, sent it to her and said AWWWW DOESNT THAT JUS...


October 15, 2019

Few things. in Everything.

One. I’m sick. That’s just annoying. I like breathing. Two. Andy and I figured out our Halloween costume. I get my couples costume. We are going to be little red riding hood and the big bad wo...


October 11, 2019

Is this weird? in Everything.

When I was very young, I used to have a best friend that lived across the street. She moved away when I was about 6. We wrote letters to each other for YEARS until about 13-14 years old. Now tha...


Does anyone still dress up and go out? Are we over that stage now? I think I’m going out. We don’t go crazy with costumes. Last year I wore a halo and called myself an angel. The year before I ...


October 04, 2019

Things in Everything.

Currently happening: Getting my house slowly cleaned for Andy’s move. He got his stuff figured out on his end and now it’s time to start the purge of the junk. Bffs shower. Lord help me. It’s ...


I hate it. I haaaaate having to shop and come up with the dinner choices. And even harder- I was Keto for a while so low carb HIGH FAT. Now Andy’s doc tells him he needs to eat low fat (at leas...


September 30, 2019

That feeling when ... in Everything.

Boyfriend and I are quietly sitting outside of an ice cream shop enjoying a treat before we head home from our day date in a cute small town and he says, “you know what we’re going to have to fig...


I plan on still writing a legit entry but tiny vent. So. My new job. We sell a item. Well- multiple varieties of a certain item. We have a website that people can visit and order directly from...


September 25, 2019

a little offended? in Everything.

So. As you know BFF’s wedding is in 4 months. I’m maid of honor. It’s been shit show that I’ve stopped myself from coming to complain about because it’s just the same stuff over and over. But he...


September 17, 2019

Home. in Everything.

I got home last night around 9pm. I want to write a proper entry because I have a lot to say but I’m TIRED. How do you people who travel a lot do it?! I wish I would have taken an extra day off (...


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