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Life of a Mama Cat

by Clowder

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Caretaker fatigue

How does one deal with caretakers fatigue? I want to be a good caretaker but it's hard when you are treated poorly.


In my next life I want to be the husband. He sleeps while I care for his son the entire night.. yes I am jealous. I want to sleep too!


I put my mother in a psych unit because she was being irrational confrontational and thought the hitting me was a good idea instead fighting with her I decided a psychological evaluation was wha...


It's baby's first Christmas. Does it even matter if we celebrate. He is so young it wouldn't make a difference not like he will remember it.


How do you save someone who doesn't want to save themselves? So Mom has been showing signs of schizoaffective disorder since dad died in 2018 and it got worse in 2022. In 2022 mom ended up willi...


December 08, 2025

Silly

I am so tired but Mr Leo has got his diaper changed and had a bottle.he is now looking at ceiling calling someone. I don't know whether to be creeped out or tell Mr ghost they freaking better pa...


It's horrible how mom keeps pushing me until I cry. I almost pack my family up and left. My husband made arrangements at his job I had everything packed. She told me go ahead and named 2 people...


I am so tired bending over backwards for a person who simply don't care. Talan and spent hours trying to clean Mom's room after she embarrassed us in front of her side of the family. We tore he...


November 27, 2025

Moldy cookie shocker

I was at the gas station I bought chocolate cookies excited. I opened the cookies they were covered in mold. I showed it to the gas attendant asking for a refund. She threw up in front of me. I ...


Anybody been a caregiver for their parents before? Is there someone I can talk to about the legal rules? Mom keeps spending herself broke refused to  pay her bills. It's so bad she get reactive...


After me having a miserable annoying day I went to go pick my husband up from work to discover blue lights behind me. A police officer asked if I knew the light was out on my license plate. I to...


November 23, 2025

Mom's stupidity this month..

I gave mom her card when my son was in surgery I told her don't pay bills or go shopping till I got back. She in return order 2 brand new cellphones and a $1,800 warrantee for someone to come do...


 My mother who is used to fussing and acting out to get her way has been arguing with me a lot since my son is in the hospital. We are over an hour away and cannot be at service for all her bidd...


November 19, 2025

Baby's hernia surgery

 I am currently in Charleston for Leo's bilateral hernia surgery. They appeared to fix the hernias. He is very gassy and grumpy from the surgery. The moment I stop rocking he cries. I guess I wi...


November 18, 2025

Learn respect or else

I kept warning you not to poke the sleeping bear. I told you to stop while you are still safe. Now you are scared playing the victim. Nope I don't want to hear it. That boundary was established ...


 My 4 month old son Leo has a bilateral hernia. The surgeon set up the babies surgery as soon as Monday because they fear the possibility of strangulation. When they told me not to wait I decide...


November 09, 2025

:(

 My mom bought a dishwasher 4 years ago and my husband knowing it came from my mom refused to install it. He called himself fixing the broke one that came with our mobile home. He covered the ...


My husband didn't tell me he watched a horror movie with the baby. In the middle of the night the baby cried out in his sleep. He screamed mommy daddy Grammy help! Kitty! Hellp. I held him and c...


 I doordashed 2 days while my husband watched my son. I made $202 during that time. My husband wasn't happy because rent is $375. He had to take out a loan so we wouldn't be evicted. He knows if...


November 03, 2025

Doordashing for rent

 Since my husband was home I asked if he wanted to go Doordash to pay rent. He told me he rather stay home and care for Leo. In 3 days with my mom I made $173 Doordashing. I put $101 down on ren...


 Anybody else have issues with Wellbutrin? So far I have randomly thrown up multiple times and I when I passed out I got lucky because I handed my son Leo to my husband before I hit the bed. My ...


 I have been on Wellbutrin for depression for a week. This morning I got out of bed holding Leo and I got light headed. I screamed at my husband to take the baby. He grabbed the baby I rolled my...


October 21, 2025

Boo!

Mom was half way asleep. The house was completely silent. Suddenly she heard someone scream boo! Mom screamed and Leo cried. Now mom is mad at me for playing peek a boo with the baby and screami...


October 19, 2025

Diy bottle washer

I am proud of my husband. He installed a bottle cleaner on my sink for me. That will make washing dishes so much easier. :) talk about a break washing baby bottles I am so grateful 


October 18, 2025

Smoke break for nonsmokers

Nonsmokers should be allowed to blow bubbles outside to decrease stress. Just say I need a smoke break and blow bubbles like SpongeBob.


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