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I’ve said before that Liz tends to be the disciplinarian in our relationship. I can be too when necessary, but I often default to Liz because she’s better at it. For this reason, I wasn’t too s...

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Things have settled into a normal routine at home, even though most people would say that our home life is anything but normal. The three of us aren’t quite all equal partners, and I don’t think...

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We made an interesting change in our arrangement this week. Not a major difference, but worth pointing out. After a few experiences over the last several months where we were all three of us pl...

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As I’ve written about before, my husband has struggled with his gender identity for quite some time now. And as someone who has gone through my own struggles with this, I can completely relate t...

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Just a quick update because I’ve been bad about writing. Liz and I got married today. It was a very nice almost old-fashioned wedding that seemed completely normal in every way except that it w...

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I guess in hindsight this was bound to happen eventually. Even though I insisted for a long time it really wasn’t our thing. I woke up this morning and Liz was not in bed with me. Then I hear...

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Liz and I have chosen a date for our unofficial wedding. August 1st. Here’s the thing. I married my husband on August 1st. This, of course, is not a coincidence. We decided it would be nice ...

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So last weekend was my husband’s birthday, and of course Liz and I both wanted to do something nice for him. I didn’t really have any great ideas other than taking him out to a nice meal. We ma...

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I started this diary here initially to write about my gender identity, but have since really branched out to write about polyamory and my relationships instead. I feel like I haven’t even mentio...

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Liz asked me the other day if I still wanted our wedding this summer to just be about the two of us. I was kind of offended by the question at first. This wedding has always been just about me ...

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I woke up in the middle of the night the other day and Liz wasn’t next to me. I know she has insomnia problems sometimes, so I wasn’t overly concerned. But I got up to see where she was and if ...

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It finally happened yesterday. We all knew it would eventually, and it was getting a little awkward knowing it would happen and yet knowing that it hadn’t yet happened. Almost like the pressure...

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Last month, the three of us moved into a new place. We wanted something that was new to all of us, so we got a new place rather than Liz and I moving in with my husband, or him moving in with us...

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My husband’s office Christmas party was last weekend, and he went with Liz. They decided to get a room in the hotel together after the party, and it was an exciting moment in our polyamorous rel...

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Several updates, since I haven’t written in a while: I’m having top surgery in January and I cannot wait. I am so tired of having large breasts and having to hide them at all times. I’m definit...

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With Thanksgiving coming up, and knowing how Labor Day weekend played out, I asked my husband this week to decide what should happen for this four-day weekend. I gave him three options: 1) just ...

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I had told my husband that I was setting aside this long weekend to do something with him, since virtually all of the last holidays have been spend with Liz. I’ve enjoyed my trips with Liz immen...

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When I had the ceremony with my husband a few months ago, we called it a commitment ceremony. We’re already married, and we didn’t just want to call it “renewing our vows” because I think it was...

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Liz spent a total of four nights with us and I slept with her every night. There was something that really felt great about having us all in the same house, and I really do look forward to the da...

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We ended up forcing an issue that I had been delaying having to deal with this week. I blame the weather. It’s been extremely hot here for the last several days. The house I share with my husb...

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I’ve been attending a genderqueer discussion group for about a year now and have made some great friends there. About a month ago I announced to the group that I no longer identify as genderquee...

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Liz, my husband, and I went out to dinner last night. I really like the idea of the three of us hanging out together, and last night was a lot of fun. On the drive to the restaurant, Liz commen...

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So my wife came home yesterday from a day of shopping with Liz and talked to me a bit about all the things she bought. Then she says she wants to talk to me about something else. I’m curious, o...

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After Liz and I went on our last trip together, I brought all the dirty laundry, mine and hers, home for my wife to wash. As my sub, she does all the laundry anyway, but I thought it would be a ...

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I'm very happy with my current love life. After a stretch of polyamory experimenting, and frankly being a bit of a slut, I now have two people in my life that I love. I love my wife. I also lo...

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