We’ve been together almost ten years. Close to our wedding. He has been changing for over a year, emotionally distant but still communicating. Obviously insecure to the point I was acused of being intimate with friends that I never even see. His libido is gone…which at one time was insatiable. He still shows obvious attraction but no matter how much I try..or wait. Nothing happens. I’m starting to become withdrawn and depressed, questioning my looks my actions everything. I ask what can I do to help you? He says it’s in his head, and I can’t help. But what can I do…I’m beginning to think I’ll be the only woman in history to not make love her wedding night.the more I’m rejected to more I pull into myself and any things I have ever questioned all brew. It’s affecting my dreams, my mood everything. I’m so lost my best friend, father to my child is unreachable. I can’t help feeling ugly, unwanted and lonely even 6 inches from him.