I have been best friends with a guy since seventh grade, which we were about 12 years old then. Our friendship has only grown until now which we are 25 going on 26. he has had a crush on me since the 7th grade. I unknowingly have been the person that he has taken to every place in which he is wanted to meet with his new date or person that he had a crush on at a time. The unknowingly part of this is that he was seeking my approval for these people. I have recently found out that it was only because that he liked me but knew that we were only friends and I had put him in the friendzone a long time ago. That friend zone starting in 7th grade. Today I drove 9 and a half hours to attend his wedding to a woman who year ago he had said to me that if I would be with him you would call it all off. I thought he had moved past it always good but he has been my best friend for over 10 years. In today I attended his wedding hoping that he is truly happy. he did not cry when his bride went down the aisle he did not cry at their first dance. Throughout the evening he slightly ignored me slash avoided me but at the end when I was leaving I gave him a hug and I told him that I love him and I’m glad about our friendship. He pulled me in and he told me that he loved me and that he really needed to talk to me privately. When he said this he had tears in his eyes. And after that he pulled me close and gave me a hug and told me he loved me. His now-wife looked at us funny and I then covered it up and told him and her that I’m so excited for them to attend my wedding in 2 weeks. I want my best friend to be happy what what do you even do in the situation? I love him to pieces but as it’s been discovered and talked about so many times over the years I just don’t know what to do but pray for him that they are happy in their marriage.