What if you are just waiting for someone who won’t come? What if not? Whatever it is you should not stop yourself from doing the things that make you happy. Let them be disappointed and unlike you.

I came from a situation where I constantly want to get an approval by my crush and for some reasons he activated that part of me that wants to be liked by him. I adjusted and even quit my job because I feel like his affirmation is something I can never reach. Years later, I found myself stuck and hoping he would like me back even if there are no clear signs of pursuit.

So, to my girlies, you are deeply loved and amazing. Never ever change yourself for a man to like you back and he really wants you he won’t make you doubt about your worth. Stop all the chasing, whether it may be in silence. Be intentional and stop. Look at your life. Are you really happy?