Stay Vacation in Help Me Please

At 4:00 PM today hubby starts his holidays till next Tuesday and we are going to be doing all the shit work that I said I was going to do and for whatever reason never did. And I am going to be doing some of it too. But my plan till he actually gets here is I am going to get some of it done like the bathroom and the kitchen floor and do the sweeping so then what else he wants done won’t be so much or so bad. Oh and I want to make a banana bread also and make the Lasagna for dinner. I figure I will start at noon and by dinner time it all should be done. And maybe I will even fold the laundry from last week that has been sitting in the laundry basket all week.
And one day this week hubby wants to ask his brother for a ride to get some much needed food and stuff and have a chance to play catch up on their lives and talk about the women in their life and how we are driving them both crazy. You know guy stuff.
I am actually looking forward to not having to make sure hubby has what he needs for work and I get to even sleep in....But I am thinking I won’t because I have been getting up at basically the same time for almost 14 years so I don’t think anything will change. But I know hubby will sleep in because he always does when he doesn’t have to go to work. I think it’s a guy thing.

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I talked to my son’s roommate and she told me that he is very hurt from the words that I called him and I should stick that olive branch out and apologize to him. But then I told her I am always the one to apologize and he also needs to apologize to me for his part of this. And she said I am right. I told her that the only reason i nag him is because he forgets what I have asked him to do or bring so I just get frustrated and when he gives his excuse he either lies about it or just says he forgot. So I told his roommate that he needs to call me and then i will talk to him. But what I am going to tell him is that he has known me for his whole life and he knows what I am like so why even bother apologizing because this will happen again and again. And I will also tell him he has to realize what he has done and he needs to recognize that he is just as wrong as I am and then maybe that can be a understanding and we can accept each others faults and call us both human. And maybe then we can let by gone be by gone and water under that bridge.
Oh and I did tell her that my son needs to go see the lung specialist because his asthma is getting a lot worse then it ever was. And he also thinks he is autistic but I don’t think so because he would have been told when he was a child but he could be on the spectrum but still that wouldn’t stop him from living life. My mom thinks that all these so called excuses is just a way for him to stay on welfare and not work ever again and maybe she is right but I know my son can not live on welfare. He does not know how to budget his money or do the until pricing thing.

So I just hope my son will understand the two or three things he needs to do to show me the respect I deserve and follow through because I really don’t like talking or typing on face book or e-mail and I find it not very personable and there is really no emotions and you can’t hear the person laughing at your corny jokes.

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Well it’s that time again where I need to get started on my days work.....
So enjoy the rest of your day and please be kind, be calm and be safe and most importantly behave.

Last updated April 24, 2021