One Day You Wake Up in Change is Brewing

I came to a realization over the weekend. Quite a profound one in my mind but probably one that many others have learned early on.

Change is sudden. It’s not something that can be planned and if it is, you probably won’t follow through with it. Change is a feeling as much as it is a choice. You have to feel the burning desire to want to make the change in order to truly embrace it. It goes hand in hand. Feeling - choice - change.

I understand why many break-ups happen so suddenly for one partner. For the partner who wants to leave, they left the relationship in their mind long before they made the desicion in the real realm. The other partner? Well… You know how it goes.