I should just continue naming my entries “this guy!”
Met on dating site. Somewhat hit it off. He’s a nice and fun guy but the attraction was 100% there. Like 2 months later he finally asks to meet up. He annoys me beforehand. Date was decent, at best. Too much for a first meeting at times. He seemed way more into me than I was into him. Told me he definitely wanted a second date, had good feelings about us and was “feelin’” me. He kept talking about how he needed to get me off all dating sites for good.
That was last Saturday.
Sunday, I didn’t get a normal good morning text. I eventually get a text at 1 just saying hey.
I respond around 3 (when I saw it) saying “hey you, how’s it going?”
Later that night he texts “thhhhheeeee bearsssss”
He’s a Bears fan, I’m a packers fan. He talked a lot of shit on Saturday. Obviously was feeling good about the beginning of that game. Lol.
I responded right away with “shhhh”
Then AFTER the game - after we won- I texted “you okay? 😊”
He wasn’t a huge texter but he ALWAYS said good morning. And normally text a little throughout the day. If he’s busy, it’s cool. But it’s always so convenient these guys get “so busy” right after a date.
I chalked it up to him ghosting me. And you know what? I was FINE with that. It saves me the “I’m not feeling this” speech.
I got a text from him today.
“Sorry, was busy getting ready for my trip and taking care of things for my little brother that got arrested in NYC. I’m stress free now. Hope you been okay.”
His brother got arrested a few weeks ago. His mom was there helping him. But like I said - I get people get busy but don’t you think if you just had a date and if you really were “feeling” this person- as you claimed- wouldn’t you text them and say “HEY MY NEXT FEW DAYS ARE SO BUSY SO I MIGHT BE A LITTLE MIA” or something?
It doesn’t change things.
I wasn’t interested and I’m still not. But it’s just a vent about dating and all the fun it brings.