Arguing for hospital care, dehydrated, fasting during pregnancy,entitled cousin in Life of a Mama Cat

 Yesterday night I was having bad abdominal and back pain. I couldn't sleep comfortably or even pick up anything. I kept telling my husband I wanted to just check if the pregnancy was ok. My husband said he was tired from getting off of work. He taped my stomach told me to get some sleep.

Since my first stroke in 2017. He won't let me go to the emergency room alone because he fears a real emergency might take place.

 Yesterday morning I asked him to let me go to the hospital my abdominal and back pain is worse. He told me he got shit to do at the house he don't want to waste his day off dealing with me in the hospital. I took a shower told him I am grown I can go alone..I manage to eat one bagel and a cup of blueberries when he demanded me lets go he ain't got all day. I told him but I am still hungry can I make a bowl of cereal. He told me no told me that's plenty of food and had me drive to the hospital.

 Dr checked on my blood work. Did testing to say it's loose ligament pain. The Dr pointed out I was dehydrated and they found ketones in my blood so much body was fasting. He husband wanted to know why didn't I eat enough I told him he took my food while I was eating. He wanted to know why I didn't drink enough I told him when I asked to stop and get a drink on the way to the hospital he told me a bottle of sparkling water was enough. I told him he knew I needed more water he just ignored my request.

 He got upset when the doctor put me on a liter of fluids. He asked how long will this take he has a mix martial arts class at 7. The nurses turned up the drip so it went faster. My husband did his mix martial arts warm ups in the very large delivery room.

 He was cracking jokes with the nurses and was enjoying himself. He was making the best of it but grew frustrated when I asked him to call a nurse to disconnect me from the machine dispersing the fluids  long enough for me to use the restroom. He got frustrated said he didnt want me to disconnect from the .machine because he was concerned the fluids wouldn't drip faster. I told him gravity will continue the drip till I am done peeing calm down. He caught the nurses not looking and squeeze the bag hoping the fluids go into my system faster. I told him calm down he will make it to his class.

 The nurses asked me if been doing any strenuous activities. I been carrying out trash, cleaning the house,doing dishes and helping my mom learn the new sewing machine taking care of mom. The Dr said I have loose ligament pain and I was put on light duty. My husband said he doesn't get why I am even in pain cleaning is light duty that isn't real work. He expected me to clean more. He said washing dishes professionally for a living is real work. I miss working my Dr told me quit my job for my health till after the baby was born.

 The Dr told my husband no sex until after I heal from childbirth he complained how a man has needs and it's unfair we haven't had sex in 4 months. When the Dr suggested complete pelvic floor rest I celebrated. I welcomed the break. My husband been commenting he wishes I was poly instead monogamous. He wishes he could take his frustrations elsewhere. I told him if he cheats we are done. I am fine going without sex for the safety of the health of our child. My husband acts like the world is ending. I wasnt even sexually active until I was 20. Obviously my sex drive isn't my problem. I can go without honestly. My husband acts like he is dying.

 My husband went to his mix martial arts class. I sat there bored. I discussed with a teenager a couple good movies I have watched and told her i just got out the hospital from difficulties with my pregnancy. She said her dad would kill her if she got pregnant and I told her I waited till I was 38 to have kids. I got 2 college degrees that I graduated from the presidents lists with. I could get a masters degree but I didn't want to get more student loan debt. I just paid off all my student loans. I feel accomplished my student loan debt is paid.

 I asked the mix martial arts teacher if I could get a cup for water. He told me didn't have any more cups. I went to my car dug around and found a bottle of water. I think I am going to donate cups for his classes. Imagine having a huge water cooler and no cups.

 Remember how my husband tried to sell my spare car to my cousin Carolyn last week? I told him no! Carolyn called last night asking me to give her my car.. hers got impounded due to her not paying payments. My mom and I both decided no matter what my husband said keeping a spare car in case one broke down was a good idea. What if I have a medical emergency and I need to drive myself to the hospital? My car mine and moms we paid to buy it and get repairs my husband never contributed to caring for it. His name isn't on the title. Why should he sell my car without my permission? Carolyn wants me to give her a car for me to pay for car insurance and repairs for her just because she has kids. Bitch get off the weed and get a job! Excuse me but I earned my car you can earn yours!

 I wish I could stay I slept all night but my cats were rough housing and woke me up. While I write this Harley Quinn my grey stripe cat is purring on my lap happily. At least I can make one creature in my life happy. The humans are so difficult to make happy.