How long? in Public.

  • Nov. 30, 2021, 10:29 a.m.
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How long of not hearing back from your SO do you wait before freaking out?
Especially when your SO is ALWAYS quick with messaging back?

He drives on the interstate to work every day and I always worry. I hate the interstate.
I USUALLY get a text when he gets to work, or shortly after. Usually. Not always.
I messaged him today and it’s not read yet. He’s usually so quick to read/message. Even if he’s in a lease signing with someone, it’s only an hour. It’s been over that.

I hate it.

I’m semi-freaking out.


He’s okay!
He was training the new girl at work and wasn’t checking his phone.
I emailed his work email… and he saw that. I told him we’re going to start tracking each other. Lol

My new co-worker (well, newish) recently lost her husband. It was a car accident.
He went out of town to visit his family (couple hours away) and on his way home a biker hit him, killed him (he was in a car). She didn’t find out for hourrrrrrrrrs. The cops showed up at her door and… I just can’t imagine.

I hate that he has to drive so far every day :(


Last updated November 30, 2021


DE_nobelle November 30, 2021

i'd be concerned in your position. i'm SURE he's fine though!

Empire of Lights DE_nobelle ⋅ November 30, 2021

He IS. I just heard from him, finally. After I emailed his work email.

DE_nobelle Empire of Lights ⋅ November 30, 2021

now tell him not to scare you like that again!!

colojojo January 02, 2022

That is absolutely terrible:(

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