Yes, you do! No one else is responsible for your happiness except you, because it comes from within. That goes for your husband and mom as well. They are responsible from their own happiness. I felt so weighed down by the responsibility to always make my ex-husband happy. I finally had enough. It didn't make sense that I was responsible. Once I figured out where happiness really came from, I realized I was not and would not be responsible for him any longer. Hugs. Maybe 2021 will be your year of happiness discovery! :)