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March 28, 2020

Is it wrong in 2020

of me to request that Andy sets a bedtime for his daughter when she sleeps over? I think it’s fair. Parents/adults are allowed to get SOME TIME to themselves at night when a kid goes to bed, yes?...


March 25, 2020

He asked me to marry him. in 2020

This one is weird. This isn’t an OMG HE PROPOSED I’M SO HAPPY WE’RE GONNA GET MARRIED OMGZ~ I don’t even know WHAT it was about. Last night, I was annoyed with him. It was for a juvenile reason...


March 24, 2020

Lol. in 2020

Everyone jokes that Overcooked 2 is the game to play that would cause fights with your SO but nah. We flew through that with no issues. Animal Crossing though. That’s another story. 🙄😑


March 23, 2020

Work. in 2020

It’s confirmed. The morning that our governor places a “stay at home” order - my work gets an “essential” work order for the medical field so .... we’re staying open. In my mind - I don’t think ...


March 20, 2020

Checking in. in 2020

Hey guys. How are you? How’s this coronavirus situation treating you? Are you home? Are you working? Are you surviving okay? Do you have enough food and toilet paper? Do you have enough ent...


March 19, 2020

Work situation. in 2020

I’m not even sure what’s going on in the world these days. I keep hearing all these rumors about a nationwide quarantine/shutdown. Who knows if it’ll happen or if my state will do it themselves. ...


March 17, 2020

Just a quickie. in 2020

I didn’t go to the wedding last weekend. I actually felt terrible on Saturday. BAD headache. I took meds and pretty much slept all day. I woke up on Sunday feeling better. No other symptoms besi...


March 13, 2020

Things. in 2020

I have a wedding to go to this weekend and I don’t want to go. I have to go grocery shopping tonight and I don’t want to go. People have been posting pictures of the stores nearby and they’re ba...


March 10, 2020

#WeddingHashtag in 2020

What is your opinion on the whole wedding hashtag thing? I get WHY it’s a thing. I never thought I would need one because I don’t have a lot of friends, I don’t have a lot of people on social me...


March 06, 2020

How can I say no? in 2020

My once quiet weekend has turned into … a lot. Tonight, I am meeting Andy’s BFF for the first time. We’ve been dating over a year now. I met his other friends but scheduling never worked out wi...


March 04, 2020

HI I MISS YOU. in 2020

I know (think) I updated last week but I feel like I suck at this place sometimes. I go in spurts. Sometimes I complain about nothing forever and then I disappear for a while. Even though my “whi...


February 28, 2020

Favorite picture. in 2020

Last summer I took a cute pic of Andy and my niece. It was a quiet, “AW LOOK /SNAP” before they moved and.... it’s blurry. It makes me sad because I love it so much. MYHEART. They were dancing ...


February 27, 2020

Emotional. in 2020

I’ve been super emotional lately but I’ve been able to contain it, talk myself out of it, etc etc whatever. But today. Man. I’m tired. My cat has been waking me up at 4-5am every morning. I have...


February 24, 2020

Need dress opinions. in 2020

Like always. I am a plus one for a wedding (New Hampshire BFF is my date). They eloped and are just having the celebrations now. The theme is “Old Hollywood”. I don’t know if people will actual...


February 20, 2020

I miss my brother. in 2020

I know this isn’t going to make much sense without a lot of the dreaded back story of the SIL drama but I’ve REALLY been missing my brother lately. I miss him in general… but I just really miss ...


February 19, 2020

When do the parents meet? in 2020

People in relationships- when did your parents meet your SO’s parents? Is planning a dinner for them to meet a normal thing? I read a thread on Reddit before and a lot of people said they didn’t...


February 18, 2020

Cranks. in 2020

I am annoyed at the world today. Every.little.thing. I hate this feeling. I wish I could just snap out of it.


February 14, 2020

And for Valentine's day I got... in 2020

my period. :( :( :( :( :( I suppose it’s okay. 1. It means no babies which is probably ideal right now. I need to pay off a few bills before all that. And you know… maybe get engaged then marr...


February 10, 2020

Noooo. in 2020

I think I lost my wallet. Edit: found it. Buried in snow. 😂


February 10, 2020

Curious... Need your thoughts. in 2020

I’m just curious on what other’s thoughts would be. Say your friend is getting married but it’s a destination wedding. The only people invited are: Brides family and two best friends (and thei...


February 06, 2020

Bulletpoints and questions. in 2020

Down 10lbs as of this morning. Yeaaaah buddy. Only like 15lbs away from getting back to my recent lowest (in 2017) then like 50 more lbs. Lol. Andy isn’t down anything :( Only difference in ...


February 03, 2020

Meal kit plans? in 2020

Anyone use any of these? Any suggestions? Cost? Type of meals? Worth it? We’ve been on a “healthy kick” but we struggle to find new recipes without having a search for hours for a few that sou...


January 30, 2020

A LAUGH! in 2020

I know I’ve been updating a lot lately. SORRY. My goal was not to really update about anything else besides all the sister in law drama but in doing so - I wanted to go back to the start of this...


January 29, 2020

New relationship milestone in 2020

Happened tonight. It’s his night to do dishes (I love the new rough edit of our chore chart. Two nights of no dishes for me this week so far. AMAZING.) I decided to shower. He had to poop. I ...


January 28, 2020

Few things. in 2020

I actually have a few things to update about - even though it’s not all that exciting. MY HOT WATER HEATER. Ugh. So here’s THAT timeline. Friday morning: Andy takes cold shower but we’re late ...


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